Today's Decision

            After watching The Parasyte, I therefore conclude that helping is not only about the blood related, most of the time it is how you care or important that certain person is. However, what if a person who’s not blood related nor an important to you is asking for you help. She is totally stranger to you would you ignore her even tho she needs your help the most?

            As the time pass by our lifestyle practices are changing it may lead to good or bad, it defends on a person. And for the generation today, our practice on helping is getting worst, we choose whos and how to help or we may not choose but perform a  different qualities of help depends on a person seeking for your support: Example two person who are involve on a car accident, the first one is your mother who is unconscious and have small bruises and the second one is a pregnant stranger who is conscious and bleeding, so who to save first? Of course as a daughter you’ll save your mother first, because she’s your mother, period. The pregnant stranger? Im sure you’ll save her too but the main priority is your mother.

            In terms of helping in any field majority choose to help relative first it is because loosing a family member or important person is a big loss to them, that is why a small help needed and asked by the relative they are openly prepared to help even tho the  huge help is right in front of them mourning for their help sometimes they choose to ignore and act as if they are not seeing the sorrow of others.

            Too much care for family does not mean you are allowed to ignore others. Caring let people to choose how, who, and when to help depending on a situation not on a person. We are all equal and bias must not be perform when it comes to helping and other stuff.

The Teenage Life Journey

     There's a girl namely Yanna Naesa who is now 17 years old and lives at Taguig City, she's so aloof with others. She doesn't want to be on crowd it makes her dizzy and that's because she's claustrophobic. She even barely talk not because she's bad breath but because she's afraid that no one will hear her out. Her fear was worst whenever she do presentations or reports in front of everyone, seeing everyone looking at her makes her knees weak and her to stutter while speaking. Everyone has different and unique experiences in life as we grow up, like Yanna.

     
     For so many years it is rare to see her smiling not until the magical day happened, she was on a 4th grade at Villamor Air Base Elementary School when she had her friends at first those people were just nothing to her they are just her classmates. One day, they become circle of close friends, partners in crime, and a squad. There friendships were getting stronger not until the graduation came, they had no time to hang out until there friendships suddenly fade off. However, there's a certain person that she still has connection and that is Alicia. They become best of friends tho they do not frequently meet. 

     For her high school life she chose Sta. Clara Parish School. But for her it's a big wrong move especially accepting the offer of being a one of Business Students or so called pilot section. For her, she just bring herself on a prison, its not because of the school regulations but because the sets of her classmates have an obnoxious attitude. She has to deal with a bunch of brat students who were thinking that they knew everything, maybe its because they are on a pilot section or maybe because where they grew up. On the thought of going back to high school it gives her chill because she doesn't want to be bullied again and be with them.

     For her college life as student as of now its fun. She has this thing so called Barkada, they have different traits, ups and downs but for her it's like they are meant to be with each other. They hangout a lot go to malls to eat or stay on their chamber, Jollibee. The chit chat on their group is non stop unless they are all sleepy.  She even had a two new best of friends, Cheza and George. She treat the as her new twin but this time they are two, not blood related but still she value them like her real twin brother who died when they were 7 years old. 

     Yanna's life as a teenager is like a roller coaster, it may have ups and downs but at the end you're happy. Experiences in life gives us lesson on good things and bad things, it is all up to you which one to choose to apply and remember for the rest of your life. Everyone needs to be with someone; a family, friends or love of your life. It may look like you want to be alone because of a dark experience but the truth is No Man is an Island. You have to be with others that you are compatible with to live happily.